https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/ Fri, 28 Aug 2026 06:18:19 +0000 MyBB https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=7838 Thu, 20 Aug 2026 11:33:46 -0400 red]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=7838
A short but important note about the future of the gendercriticalresources.com forum.

For some time now, the board has been running on aging software that we — the volunteer moderators — have not been able to properly update or secure. Rather than let it quietly decline (and likely either break down completely or get hacked), a few of us have found a way to give it a fresh start while preserving the many years of posts. We have successfully moved the forum to a new home, on infrastructure we can actually maintain, so that it can be kept alive and welcoming for the parents who are only now finding themselves blindsided by all of this and searching for others who understand.

Here is what you need to know:

The forum has moved to https://www.gendercriticalparents.forum. All past posts (as of August 2026) and user accounts have been transferred to this new home. Your existing username and password should still work at the new URL. You do not need to register again. If you've forgotten your password, just click Login and then "Lost Password?".

To keep our community as low-profile as it has always been, we ask that you are careful about who you share the new URL with. But we do hope you will alert any local parent support groups to this forum so that it reaches who it needs to reach.

The forum's "old" site (where you are currently) is increasingly unreliable. Therefore, in 90 days, we are planning to erase all posts from the old site for security and privacy reasons, leaving only this "We've Moved" message.

Thank you for being part of this community. Whether you follow us to the new home, or have moved on to other things, we are grateful you were here — and we hope the forum can go on being a lifeline for the next parent who needs it.]]>
A short but important note about the future of the gendercriticalresources.com forum.

For some time now, the board has been running on aging software that we — the volunteer moderators — have not been able to properly update or secure. Rather than let it quietly decline (and likely either break down completely or get hacked), a few of us have found a way to give it a fresh start while preserving the many years of posts. We have successfully moved the forum to a new home, on infrastructure we can actually maintain, so that it can be kept alive and welcoming for the parents who are only now finding themselves blindsided by all of this and searching for others who understand.

Here is what you need to know:

The forum has moved to https://www.gendercriticalparents.forum. All past posts (as of August 2026) and user accounts have been transferred to this new home. Your existing username and password should still work at the new URL. You do not need to register again. If you've forgotten your password, just click Login and then "Lost Password?".

To keep our community as low-profile as it has always been, we ask that you are careful about who you share the new URL with. But we do hope you will alert any local parent support groups to this forum so that it reaches who it needs to reach.

The forum's "old" site (where you are currently) is increasingly unreliable. Therefore, in 90 days, we are planning to erase all posts from the old site for security and privacy reasons, leaving only this "We've Moved" message.

Thank you for being part of this community. Whether you follow us to the new home, or have moved on to other things, we are grateful you were here — and we hope the forum can go on being a lifeline for the next parent who needs it.]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=7060 Fri, 29 Mar 2024 13:00:41 -0400 JustAnotherMom]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=7060
I have a 15-year old son diagnosed with ADHD, who has anxiety, depression and who recently shared with us that he suffers from gender dysphoria and would like to start hormone replacement therapy. I am looking for a therapist in the Boston area who would work with him primarily on his mental health and would leave for now the discussions about hormone replacement therapy and plastic surgery. I contacted the two recommendations I found on Dr. Miriam Grossman's website, but if someone has other recommendations, I am willing to reach out to other psychologists. 
Thanks in advance!]]>
I have a 15-year old son diagnosed with ADHD, who has anxiety, depression and who recently shared with us that he suffers from gender dysphoria and would like to start hormone replacement therapy. I am looking for a therapist in the Boston area who would work with him primarily on his mental health and would leave for now the discussions about hormone replacement therapy and plastic surgery. I contacted the two recommendations I found on Dr. Miriam Grossman's website, but if someone has other recommendations, I am willing to reach out to other psychologists. 
Thanks in advance!]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=7055 Fri, 22 Mar 2024 10:43:22 -0400 Sandycarmom]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=7055

I'm looking to interview families to help clarify the needs of the transitioned, their families, and the desisters as there will be a massive influx of clientele who realize they were sold a lie. 

I dont need names or any identifying information. You can be entirely anonymous. 

The word of mental health has no idea how to handle this topic except to shame families and pressure the youth. 

Please message me of you'd like to be involved!]]>

I'm looking to interview families to help clarify the needs of the transitioned, their families, and the desisters as there will be a massive influx of clientele who realize they were sold a lie. 

I dont need names or any identifying information. You can be entirely anonymous. 

The word of mental health has no idea how to handle this topic except to shame families and pressure the youth. 

Please message me of you'd like to be involved!]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=6914 Wed, 13 Dec 2023 02:28:32 -0500 TruthSeeker1]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=6914
https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/pare...bc24&ei=19]]>
https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/pare...bc24&ei=19]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=5428 Fri, 04 Feb 2022 14:57:16 -0500 Firefly]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=5428 https://genspect.org/what-genspect-has-d...ts-so-far/

They are doing such good work! Please give them financial support if you can.]]> https://genspect.org/what-genspect-has-d...ts-so-far/

They are doing such good work! Please give them financial support if you can.]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=5425 Thu, 03 Feb 2022 13:11:01 -0500 sunny]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=5425
Our position is that we are not rushing to make big changes like name until she has lived in this space for some time.  Her friends may call her whatever they like, but in any formal setting she will use her birth name.

How should we approach the school with this? How do we make sure this is being unforced?

Thank you]]>
Our position is that we are not rushing to make big changes like name until she has lived in this space for some time.  Her friends may call her whatever they like, but in any formal setting she will use her birth name.

How should we approach the school with this? How do we make sure this is being unforced?

Thank you]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=5144 Thu, 07 Oct 2021 22:19:49 -0400 Tom of Helatrobus]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=5144 ROGD Male Profile. I posted this to a facebook group earlier and many members said this was an exact fit or very close. Some members said this profile matched their with their girls on most points.


1. Age of onset is during teen years.
2. Did not display gender non conforming behavior prior to “coming out” as trans.
3. Little or no interest in girl things after coming out as trans with the exception of wanting to dress, be addressed as a girl and physically transitioning to female.
4. Grows out hair.
5. Attempts to enlist parents as allies or manipulate parents to the end of facilitating transition.
6. Pre-occupation with hormone replacement therapy (HRT).
7. Parents had no prior hint the teen was trans or homosexual.
8. Smart. Academically talented.
9. Good at mathematics.
10. Little or no interest in competitive sports.
11. Socially awkward, soft spoken.
12. Sexually inexperienced/ inmature for their age.
13. Displays no or little interest in sex aside from stating a sexual orientation.
14. Self identifies as homosexual or bisexual.
15. Pychological comorbidities: anxieties, depression, autism spectrum, ADHD, OCD, for which therapy has been sought.
16. Recent crisis challenging sense of identity: recent falling out with friends, breakup, failure at school, etc.
17. Very active online/ on the internet via forums and gaming.
18. Has at least one trans friend.
19. Spends a lot of time isolated in room.
20. Interest in anime (Japanese cartoons).
21. Interest in cartoon porn and/or hypno-sissy porn.
22. Messy, difficulty keeping personal space/ room organized.
23. Resistant to growing up: won’t get driver’s license, holds on to age inappropriate items from childhood.
24. Reticent to discuss trans identity despite placing great emphasis and importance on it.
25. Far left politics: “Woke”, into social justice, anti capitalism also concepts like inter-sectionality, and “privilege”.
26. Parents are liberal.]]> ROGD Male Profile. I posted this to a facebook group earlier and many members said this was an exact fit or very close. Some members said this profile matched their with their girls on most points.


1. Age of onset is during teen years.
2. Did not display gender non conforming behavior prior to “coming out” as trans.
3. Little or no interest in girl things after coming out as trans with the exception of wanting to dress, be addressed as a girl and physically transitioning to female.
4. Grows out hair.
5. Attempts to enlist parents as allies or manipulate parents to the end of facilitating transition.
6. Pre-occupation with hormone replacement therapy (HRT).
7. Parents had no prior hint the teen was trans or homosexual.
8. Smart. Academically talented.
9. Good at mathematics.
10. Little or no interest in competitive sports.
11. Socially awkward, soft spoken.
12. Sexually inexperienced/ inmature for their age.
13. Displays no or little interest in sex aside from stating a sexual orientation.
14. Self identifies as homosexual or bisexual.
15. Pychological comorbidities: anxieties, depression, autism spectrum, ADHD, OCD, for which therapy has been sought.
16. Recent crisis challenging sense of identity: recent falling out with friends, breakup, failure at school, etc.
17. Very active online/ on the internet via forums and gaming.
18. Has at least one trans friend.
19. Spends a lot of time isolated in room.
20. Interest in anime (Japanese cartoons).
21. Interest in cartoon porn and/or hypno-sissy porn.
22. Messy, difficulty keeping personal space/ room organized.
23. Resistant to growing up: won’t get driver’s license, holds on to age inappropriate items from childhood.
24. Reticent to discuss trans identity despite placing great emphasis and importance on it.
25. Far left politics: “Woke”, into social justice, anti capitalism also concepts like inter-sectionality, and “privilege”.
26. Parents are liberal.]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=4911 Fri, 23 Jul 2021 00:55:33 -0400 143mykid]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=4911 I have had extensive conversations with therapists, who deal with anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues and I explain how unfair it is of them to not address these issues with my DD. I made it clear to those who were “hands off” how much of a detriment it is to shy away from working on those issues. I got the impression that they were very fearful of being accused of conducting conversion therapy.  I am so confused.  What happened to the Hippocratic Oath these medical professionals took? 

Then I come across this in my search. I am so lost and just don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like we just need to close ranks and weather this storm under some major protection spells. 

https://www.apa.org/practice/guidelines/transgender.pdf]]> I have had extensive conversations with therapists, who deal with anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues and I explain how unfair it is of them to not address these issues with my DD. I made it clear to those who were “hands off” how much of a detriment it is to shy away from working on those issues. I got the impression that they were very fearful of being accused of conducting conversion therapy.  I am so confused.  What happened to the Hippocratic Oath these medical professionals took? 

Then I come across this in my search. I am so lost and just don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like we just need to close ranks and weather this storm under some major protection spells. 

https://www.apa.org/practice/guidelines/transgender.pdf]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=4753 Tue, 25 May 2021 11:31:49 -0400 Frankie]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=4753 https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=4664 Mon, 26 Apr 2021 19:18:54 -0400 DolphinMomma]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=4664
I need legal counsel to help me fight my husband and fight for conservatorship of my daughter. 

Any leads?
I'm in Southern California, USA.]]>
I need legal counsel to help me fight my husband and fight for conservatorship of my daughter. 

Any leads?
I'm in Southern California, USA.]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=4390 Sun, 24 Jan 2021 01:47:25 -0500 alix]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=4390
I'm Alix and I'm the founder of www.transgenderabuse.org and I am also the "gender mapper", creating a catalogue of gender clinics and collecting testimonials.

I'm in the middle of some BIG jobs and looking to hire a couple of volunteers to help with some sensitive research for some big actions. 


Gender Offenders: The Power of Naming the perpetrators of harm to women and children.

Criminals who hurt children will not be able to turn back because of the collaborative work of the public.

If you have been hurt by a gender doctor, write to me and I'll add him to my "name and shame" list.

Alix 
Partners for Ethical Care]]>
I'm Alix and I'm the founder of www.transgenderabuse.org and I am also the "gender mapper", creating a catalogue of gender clinics and collecting testimonials.

I'm in the middle of some BIG jobs and looking to hire a couple of volunteers to help with some sensitive research for some big actions. 


Gender Offenders: The Power of Naming the perpetrators of harm to women and children.

Criminals who hurt children will not be able to turn back because of the collaborative work of the public.

If you have been hurt by a gender doctor, write to me and I'll add him to my "name and shame" list.

Alix 
Partners for Ethical Care]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=2272 Tue, 12 Mar 2019 23:39:10 -0400 plum]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=2272
https://www.dailysignal.com/2019/03/10/i...all-a-sham]]>
https://www.dailysignal.com/2019/03/10/i...all-a-sham]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=1759 Fri, 26 Oct 2018 23:06:21 -0400 Marge Bouvier Simpson]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=1759 Gender Critival Forum One Year Anniversary by getting the word out about ROGD. 


You may wish to use the attached letter as a resource for your discussions with all the people involved in our children’s well-being. Please consider using it at your doctor, school, or therapist’s offices.  You may wish to mail it or email it to educators, politicians, clinicians, psychologists, physicians, media outlets, and etc.  Consider sending it to authors who write about teens and empowering girls

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  1 Year GC Forum Anniversary_Letter Resource and Campaign - 22Oct2018 - Copy.docx (Size: 49.18 KB / Downloads: 1952) ]]> Gender Critival Forum One Year Anniversary by getting the word out about ROGD. 


You may wish to use the attached letter as a resource for your discussions with all the people involved in our children’s well-being. Please consider using it at your doctor, school, or therapist’s offices.  You may wish to mail it or email it to educators, politicians, clinicians, psychologists, physicians, media outlets, and etc.  Consider sending it to authors who write about teens and empowering girls

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  1 Year GC Forum Anniversary_Letter Resource and Campaign - 22Oct2018 - Copy.docx (Size: 49.18 KB / Downloads: 1952) ]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=1758 Fri, 26 Oct 2018 22:56:47 -0400 Marge Bouvier Simpson]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=1758 As a group of 1100+, we are responding to the American Academy of Pediatricians (AAP) and its recent position statement on the treatment of transgender-identifying children, with which we strongly disagree.

Please read the attached letter below and share widely.

  GC response to AAP and peditricians_22Oct2018 - Copy.docx (Size: 42.34 KB / Downloads: 4508) ]]> As a group of 1100+, we are responding to the American Academy of Pediatricians (AAP) and its recent position statement on the treatment of transgender-identifying children, with which we strongly disagree.

Please read the attached letter below and share widely.

  GC response to AAP and peditricians_22Oct2018 - Copy.docx (Size: 42.34 KB / Downloads: 4508) ]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=1515 Wed, 15 Aug 2018 18:33:10 -0400 Seeker]]> https://gendercriticalresources.com/Support/showthread.php?tid=1515
Established in Summer 2017, this forum has grown steadily to reach this milestone at our 1st Anniversary.

It is both sad and wonderful that we are 1000-strong, tied together by the fight for our children and mutual support and respect.

Thank you to the wise and innovative founders -- and to each of the members who make this such a special and important place.
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Established in Summer 2017, this forum has grown steadily to reach this milestone at our 1st Anniversary.

It is both sad and wonderful that we are 1000-strong, tied together by the fight for our children and mutual support and respect.

Thank you to the wise and innovative founders -- and to each of the members who make this such a special and important place.
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