25-May-2025, 04:42 PM
(09-May-2025, 10:41 PM)RaIn Wrote:(25-Jul-2023, 11:14 AM)shobaneru Wrote: Good Morning,
I am on the lookout for a therapist in Northern VA for my son who claims that he is a girl and wants us to call him by the appropriate pronoun and his new name. I am so very desperate to find a therapist who will not affirm. He is 17 years old soon to be 18 and wants to take hormones which I am not for. I am willing to talk to anybody who will explain to him about he harmful effects of cross sex hormones.
Everyday is a nightmare literally. I am constantly walking on eggshells around him not knowing when he will lash out.
Any help will be greatly appreciated! Please help!
Thanks in advance for your help and suggestions
Hi, I hope you found a therapist who does not necessarily affirm but has a more holistic therapeutic approach, and would appreciate your sharing the information with us. We are struggling to find one. Our adult daughter is seeking top surgery. Thank you.
Hi, RaIn,
Apologies for the late reply, but I just saw on X that Laura Becker, a detransitioner, is offering coaching services. I am assuming she offers her services remotely, but I'm not certain. If you've been unable to find someone locally, perhaps she would work with your daughter remotely, if your daughter is open to working with a detransitioner. Her bio on X says:
I am a detransitioner, advocate, and author fighting gender ideology and promoting healing and personal growth for young people in America.
As a survivor of the trans cult who reclaimed my life, I write and speak internationally on the gender crisis, including testifying at the supreme court, starring in the Daily Wire film Identity Crisis, and publishing my upcoming book Surviving the Trans Myth: A Detransition Memoir.
I offer consultation services for detransitioners, parents, and anyone affected by gender issues in their lives. We all need someone to talk to who's been there and understands without judgment. I can help you process your situation, provide support, and brainstorm solutions that will improve your quality of life.
My values when helping others (and throughout my life) include pursuit of truth, courage, acceptance, growth, and transcendence through reflection and empowerment.
Contact me for help by DM or email: laurabeckerofficial@gmail.com
Remember, YOU are powerful, loved, and healing is very possible!


