finding reliable medical practitioners

[Dadperson]

Hi Dad in Chicago of a highly intelligent sensitive 13 year old biological girl that identifies as nonbinary since some time during this pandemic but has recently changed their pronouns from they/them to he/them. After watching dozens of transition videos on YouTube Ive gotten the sense where this is possibly heading. There are 5 kids in total in her class of 24 that identify as trans which statistically seems so unlikely. My kid recently expressed the desire to force all parents to raise their children as theybies as one of her goals if you need any indication of how far down the gender ideology rabbit hole she has gone. We found a therapist that seems somewhat non affirming but my daughter senses corrected that they have little experience in the gender area and is requesting a change which scares me because Chicago is a gender transition hub and probably more affirmative than many places. Any help appreciated