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My ROGD Profile for Boys
#21
Wow- so glad I found this. My 17 year old son just announced that he was trans. Nothing about his behaviour or interests made us even think this. He is high functioning, with ADHD. Brilliant at math, very much into Anime and socially isolated and depressed. Struggling to find an experienced health care provider that has experience with this.
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#22
(10-Jun-2023, 11:55 AM)Ambmot Wrote: Wow- so glad I found this. My 17 year old son just announced that he was trans. Nothing about his behaviour or interests made us even think this. He is high functioning, with ADHD. Brilliant at math, very much into Anime and socially isolated and depressed. Struggling to find an experienced health care provider that has experience with this.

I’m sorry. Welcome to a club that none of us wanted to join. And yes, that all sounds incredibly familiar.  Heart
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#23
Thank you for this list.
My 20 year old son came out as trans on Monday after previously coming out as bi on May 31st so he could more freely celebrate Pride month.
Coming out as bi was no big deal to me but coming out as trans was a total shock there were no signs at all.

I know for sure number 21 is a no because that was the first thing I asked him as I had just heard about how powerful it was the day before.
He mocked me and couldn't wait to tell his online trans friends that was my first question.

The only other item that doesn't fit is that his dad and I are both very conservative.
As another member mentioned, my son started shaving his entire body earlier this year and he bought himself an at home laser hair removal device too.

Everything else on the list is SPOT ON.
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#24
(08-Oct-2021, 02:19 AM)Tom of Helatrobus Wrote: I'm working on a profile for ROGD Boys. This is what I have so far. Let me know how your ROGD Boy conforms or differs from the profile. Mine conforms except for #21 as far as I know. This is just a profile, not a diagnostic criteria. I'm a layman, not a mental health professional.
ROGD Male Profile. I posted this to a facebook group earlier and many members said this was an exact fit or very close. Some members said this profile matched their with their girls on most points.


1. Age of onset is during teen years.
2. Did not display gender non conforming behavior prior to “coming out” as trans.
3. Little or no interest in girl things after coming out as trans with the exception of wanting to dress, be addressed as a girl and physically transitioning to female.
4. Grows out hair.
5. Attempts to enlist parents as allies or manipulate parents to the end of facilitating transition.
6. Pre-occupation with hormone replacement therapy (HRT).
7. Parents had no prior hint the teen was trans or homosexual.
8. Smart. Academically talented.
9. Good at mathematics.
10. Little or no interest in competitive sports.
11. Socially awkward, soft spoken.
12. Sexually inexperienced/ inmature for their age.
13. Displays no or little interest in sex aside from stating a sexual orientation.
14. Self identifies as homosexual or bisexual.
15. Pychological comorbidities: anxieties, depression, autism spectrum, ADHD, OCD, for which therapy has been sought.
16. Recent crisis challenging sense of identity: recent falling out with friends, breakup, failure at school, etc.
17. Very active online/ on the internet via forums and gaming.
18. Has at least one trans friend.
19. Spends a lot of time isolated in room.
20. Interest in anime (Japanese cartoons).
21. Interest in cartoon porn and/or hypno-sissy porn.
22. Messy, difficulty keeping personal space/ room organized.
23. Resistant to growing up: won’t get driver’s license, holds on to age inappropriate items from childhood.
24. Reticent to discuss trans identity despite placing great emphasis and importance on it.
25. Far left politics: “Woke”, into social justice, anti capitalism also concepts like inter-sectionality, and “privilege”.
26. Parents are liberal.

VERY much my 17yo except we're conservative, he's smart but really struggles with math, hasn't asked us in any way to help with transition. In fact, the only thing he wanted "girlie' when he came out was black sports bras to go under is very goth/emo black head to toe look. He hasn't tried at all to dress more like a "girl". And I don't think he's into the cartoon porn-not that I found when I searched his tech. Mine also has self diagnosed as "on the spectrum".
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#25
Yes, fits almost all the criteria except I dont think he had any trans friends, and we are not a liberal household in the least. but most every other thing tracks!
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#26
This list is spot on for us as well… I’d say 24 of 26. Were not liberal and he insists he likes girls. (Which makes him a “lesbian” apparently…)
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#27
(08-Oct-2021, 02:19 AM)Tom of Helatrobus Wrote: I'm working on a profile for ROGD Boys. This is what I have so far. Let me know how your ROGD Boy conforms or differs from the profile. Mine conforms except for #21 as far as I know. This is just a profile, not a diagnostic criteria. I'm a layman, not a mental health professional.
ROGD Male Profile. I posted this to a facebook group earlier and many members said this was an exact fit or very close. Some members said this profile matched their with their girls on most points.


1. Age of onset is during teen years.
2. Did not display gender non conforming behavior prior to “coming out” as trans.
3. Little or no interest in girl things after coming out as trans with the exception of wanting to dress, be addressed as a girl and physically transitioning to female.
4. Grows out hair.
5. Attempts to enlist parents as allies or manipulate parents to the end of facilitating transition.
6. Pre-occupation with hormone replacement therapy (HRT).
7. Parents had no prior hint the teen was trans or homosexual.
8. Smart. Academically talented.
9. Good at mathematics.
10. Little or no interest in competitive sports.
11. Socially awkward, soft spoken.
12. Sexually inexperienced/ inmature for their age.
13. Displays no or little interest in sex aside from stating a sexual orientation.
14. Self identifies as homosexual or bisexual.
15. Pychological comorbidities: anxieties, depression, autism spectrum, ADHD, OCD, for which therapy has been sought.
16. Recent crisis challenging sense of identity: recent falling out with friends, breakup, failure at school, etc.
17. Very active online/ on the internet via forums and gaming.
18. Has at least one trans friend.
19. Spends a lot of time isolated in room.
20. Interest in anime (Japanese cartoons).
21. Interest in cartoon porn and/or hypno-sissy porn.
22. Messy, difficulty keeping personal space/ room organized.
23. Resistant to growing up: won’t get driver’s license, holds on to age inappropriate items from childhood.
24. Reticent to discuss trans identity despite placing great emphasis and importance on it.
25. Far left politics: “Woke”, into social justice, anti capitalism also concepts like inter-sectionality, and “privilege”.
26. Parents are liberal.

Mine except mine was an athlete. He is not soft spoken. He was interested in sex and has had experience. He did get drivers license.
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