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My son (16) is almost like. Although he is NOT 15 ( depression, ADD), 22 ( messy), and 26 (I am not exactly liberal)
What steps should I take, if local psychologist are trained to tell them not the truth but rather what they want to hear?
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Thank you for this list. Fits my 20-year-old son. He believes that estrogen will help him with his depression and help him be his true self. Is rushing to get a prescription filled and started before he starts his next year in college.
Thanks!
I would add
- once assuming this identity, suddenly gets showered with attention and company of girls.
Also,
- dislikes body hair despite pointing out women also have body hair.
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Thanks!
I would add
- once assuming this identity, suddenly gets showered with attention and company of girls.
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Yes! My 16 year old son came out to us two weeks ago. Everything on this list is accurate - including #21. I too hacked his Discord chats and found pornographic anime in addition to sexual "chats" with random people. I am horrified. We are in the process of trying to find a therapist in the South Florida area (if anyone has one that won't automatically affirm, please let me know!!).
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(11-Nov-2022, 01:25 PM)kabukijuul Wrote: [quote pid='56336' dateline='1659219834']
Thanks!
I would add
- once assuming this identity, suddenly gets showered with attention and company of girls. Yes! My 16 year old son came out to us two weeks ago. Everything on this list is accurate - including #21. I too hacked his Discord chats and found pornographic anime in addition to sexual "chats" with random people. I am horrified. We are in the process of trying to find a therapist in the South Florida area (if anyone has one that won't automatically affirm, please let me know!!).
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Hello, kabukijuul, and welcome to the forum. Your account has been activated.
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(08-Oct-2021, 02:19 AM)Tom of Helatrobus Wrote: I'm working on a profile for ROGD Boys. This is what I have so far. Let me know how your ROGD Boy conforms or differs from the profile. Mine conforms except for #21 as far as I know. This is just a profile, not a diagnostic criteria. I'm a layman, not a mental health professional.
ROGD Male Profile. I posted this to a facebook group earlier and many members said this was an exact fit or very close. Some members said this profile matched their with their girls on most points.
1. Age of onset is during teen years.
2. Did not display gender non conforming behavior prior to “coming out” as trans.
3. Little or no interest in girl things after coming out as trans with the exception of wanting to dress, be addressed as a girl and physically transitioning to female.
4. Grows out hair.
5. Attempts to enlist parents as allies or manipulate parents to the end of facilitating transition.
6. Pre-occupation with hormone replacement therapy (HRT).
7. Parents had no prior hint the teen was trans or homosexual.
8. Smart. Academically talented.
9. Good at mathematics.
10. Little or no interest in competitive sports.
11. Socially awkward, soft spoken.
12. Sexually inexperienced/ inmature for their age.
13. Displays no or little interest in sex aside from stating a sexual orientation.
14. Self identifies as homosexual or bisexual.
15. Pychological comorbidities: anxieties, depression, autism spectrum, ADHD, OCD, for which therapy has been sought.
16. Recent crisis challenging sense of identity: recent falling out with friends, breakup, failure at school, etc.
17. Very active online/ on the internet via forums and gaming.
18. Has at least one trans friend.
19. Spends a lot of time isolated in room.
20. Interest in anime (Japanese cartoons).
21. Interest in cartoon porn and/or hypno-sissy porn.
22. Messy, difficulty keeping personal space/ room organized.
23. Resistant to growing up: won’t get driver’s license, holds on to age inappropriate items from childhood.
24. Reticent to discuss trans identity despite placing great emphasis and importance on it.
25. Far left politics: “Woke”, into social justice, anti capitalism also concepts like inter-sectionality, and “privilege”.
26. Parents are liberal.
My son matches this so much. He's only been out to his mom (the custodial parent) for a couple months, and so far, doesn't seem to be indicating an interest in HRT, nor does he identify as homosexual or bisexual (that he has admitted). I've been bothered by the fact that he shows almost no interest in getting his driver's license. He has his permit and needs to log hours over the next year in order to get his actual license but doesn't show any interest in doing so.
So far, he just seems to want to be called the female version of his name and have people use she/her pronouns with him. I have suspected #21 due to expressed interest in #20 for some time, but being the non-custodial parent, I am unable to monitor his browsing, and his mother seems oblivious to the possibility even when I have expressed it to her. She is also very much on the LBGTQ+ train, having come out as bi in the past year or so. That didn't surprise me at all, but our son never showed any dysphoria around his gender growing up and was very much a boyish boy (if soft-spoken and occasionally shy) while his mother and I were still married.
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(14-Nov-2022, 07:22 PM)wildwood Wrote: (08-Oct-2021, 02:19 AM)Tom of Helatrobus Wrote: I'm working on a profile for ROGD Boys. This is what I have so far. Let me know how your ROGD Boy conforms or differs from the profile. Mine conforms except for #21 as far as I know. This is just a profile, not a diagnostic criteria. I'm a layman, not a mental health professional.
ROGD Male Profile. I posted this to a facebook group earlier and many members said this was an exact fit or very close. Some members said this profile matched their with their girls on most points.
1. Age of onset is during teen years.
2. Did not display gender non conforming behavior prior to “coming out” as trans.
3. Little or no interest in girl things after coming out as trans with the exception of wanting to dress, be addressed as a girl and physically transitioning to female.
4. Grows out hair.
5. Attempts to enlist parents as allies or manipulate parents to the end of facilitating transition.
6. Pre-occupation with hormone replacement therapy (HRT).
7. Parents had no prior hint the teen was trans or homosexual.
8. Smart. Academically talented.
9. Good at mathematics.
10. Little or no interest in competitive sports.
11. Socially awkward, soft spoken.
12. Sexually inexperienced/ inmature for their age.
13. Displays no or little interest in sex aside from stating a sexual orientation.
14. Self identifies as homosexual or bisexual.
15. Pychological comorbidities: anxieties, depression, autism spectrum, ADHD, OCD, for which therapy has been sought.
16. Recent crisis challenging sense of identity: recent falling out with friends, breakup, failure at school, etc.
17. Very active online/ on the internet via forums and gaming.
18. Has at least one trans friend.
19. Spends a lot of time isolated in room.
20. Interest in anime (Japanese cartoons).
21. Interest in cartoon porn and/or hypno-sissy porn.
22. Messy, difficulty keeping personal space/ room organized.
23. Resistant to growing up: won’t get driver’s license, holds on to age inappropriate items from childhood.
24. Reticent to discuss trans identity despite placing great emphasis and importance on it.
25. Far left politics: “Woke”, into social justice, anti capitalism also concepts like inter-sectionality, and “privilege”.
26. Parents are liberal.
My son matches this so much. He's only been out to his mom (the custodial parent) for a couple months, and so far, doesn't seem to be indicating an interest in HRT, nor does he identify as homosexual or bisexual (that he has admitted). I've been bothered by the fact that he shows almost no interest in getting his driver's license. He has his permit and needs to log hours over the next year in order to get his actual license but doesn't show any interest in doing so.
So far, he just seems to want to be called the female version of his name and have people use she/her pronouns with him. I have suspected #21 due to expressed interest in #20 for some time, but being the non-custodial parent, I am unable to monitor his browsing, and his mother seems oblivious to the possibility even when I have expressed it to her. She is also very much on the LBGTQ+ train, having come out as bi in the past year or so. That didn't surprise me at all, but our son never showed any dysphoria around his gender growing up and was very much a boyish boy (if soft-spoken and occasionally shy) while his mother and I were still married.
Wow, my son 20 years old fits the profile perfectly, except 1,3 & 26. He was showing signs after he turned 18, and show interest in girls things only as a result of social learning (positive reinforcement) as he is surrounded by trans women on internet who are constantly admiring whenever he does any girly thing. We are not liberal parents.
(11-Nov-2022, 01:25 PM)kabukijuul Wrote: [quote pid='56336' dateline='1659219834']
Thanks!
I would add
- once assuming this identity, suddenly gets showered with attention and company of girls. Yes! My 16 year old son came out to us two weeks ago. Everything on this list is accurate - including #21. I too hacked his Discord chats and found pornographic anime in addition to sexual "chats" with random people. I am horrified. We are in the process of trying to find a therapist in the South Florida area (if anyone has one that won't automatically affirm, please let me know!!).
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how do you hack discord chats because I wanna get into my son's account.
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I do not have an rogd boy but a nearly 20 year old rogd girl and still these fit very well
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08-Feb-2023, 11:14 PM
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I can't believe how much of this list fits my son. My mind is blown.
(30-Jul-2022, 10:25 PM)Guest Wrote: Also,
- dislikes body hair despite pointing out women also have body hair.
yes.. my son too.
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