09-May-2020, 08:46 PM
Oh you could be me 3 years ago. My son suddenly decided he was a girl. Last year of college. Looking back I should have seen problems, honestly I did not see anything like this. He had been really nasty and selfish with his siblings, they almost had stopped talking to him. He was practically living with his girlfriend at college. I think I was in shock the first 8 months. I wish I had not been, I should have gone there and had him have an incomplete for the year and brought him home. Even in his early 20's he was immature enough that I would have had some control over him. I wish I had thrown his cell phone and our internet over the hill then. Now it is too late. He graduated, came home, and began taking estrogen later in that year. Worked in retail for a bit. He moved out, which I am thankful for. It honestly hurts terribly to see him this way. He was a good looking kid. I have been helping him a bit but recently told him that I am not going to anymore, he made his path and I am not contributing to this one. He would like to have a good relationship with me. I just cant. We have not gone out even to dinner as a family since this all started and do not expect it to change any. No vacations etc. I am barely holding it together and his father cannot stand to be in the same room with him and hear him talk in a high sissy voice. It is not easy. Everyone here understands and prays for all of our kids
