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[Marge Bouvier Simpson]

My ex husband left when my son was 10, he was devastated and it has been a difficult 4 years. He sees his dad but has found all the changes difficult. My ex moved in with his girlfriend and her son really quickly after he left and stopped spending time with my son on his own, he struggled with that. We moved to a different area an new school for my 14yr old son.  A group of girls kind of latched on to him. He doesn't make friends easy, struggles a bit. He's not very confident. He really liked one of the girls she was cutting her self, so he starts cutting himself too, but he's telling lots of people he's doing it. Hes lost lots of weight. Stopped cutting himself when he got this girl out his head, the cutting didn't last longer than two months. Now they are telling him he's camp, my son is not camp in any way, my family are confused as to why anyone would say he is camp. Now he announced on snap chat that he's biasexual, did not tell me first, within days he is wearing eyeliner and black nail polish saying he's an Emo. He's never been with anyone. He's not listening to me. I'm finding it really hard. 14yrs I'm struggling he's still my baby. He's now saying hes a girl and he wants to be a girl. His dad is fully supporting him even referring to him as a she and called him by his girls name. I can't I don't believe that he is. I have never saw any signs of this till this past year since he's been hanging out with this group ans he has a girlfriend who also says she's biasexual. I am struggling so much with this especially because me ex is so supportive of it.

Hello Adam77,
I'm sorry to hear about all that's happening with your son and that your ex isn't questioning it like you are. This makes an already difficult situation even more so. 

Welcome to the forum. I hope you'll find it helpful. 

You are not alone.